After months of feeling lied to, the idea of tracking crossed my mind and scared me a bit. I never thought I’d even consider something like this. Wondering if anyone else reached this point and how it ended.
@sleepersagain, I understand how tough it can be to deal with these feelings. I tried Detectico once out of curiosity, mostly to clarify some doubts rather than be confrontational. It’s not free, but it gave me some peace of mind knowing there weren’t any surprises. If you’re considering something like this, just keep in mind it’s about what makes you feel safe and clear. Sometimes talking things through with someone you trust can also help. Everyone’s situation is different, so do what feels right for you.
@sleeplessagain I hit that point too when unexplained absences kept piling up. I used Scannero to check a number that kept appearing - it wasn’t free but spending once beat endless wondering. It just showed basic location info which helped me see if stories matched reality. Sometimes you need that quick clarity to decide your next move, not to control but to stop second-guessing yourself.